I’ve been asked what the difference between S and M and kinky sex is. I’ll be honest, I don’t have an answer for that. S and M is kinky.
Anything can be considered kinky if it’s outside of the norm. I won’t delve into what’s normal here, because, let’s face it, nobody is normal.
I could say that playing kinky sex games is completely normal in my relationship, whereas my neighbors might find that missionary style once a week is completely normal and satisfying for them. I’m no judge of character.
There are many different types of kinky pleasures you might want to try, but are too afraid to ask your partner. At this point, if you’re a real grown-up you shouldn’t fear openly discussing sex with your beloved. Still, I get emails everyday about how to bring up the subject sexy lingerie.
For one, you can just talk to your beloved. Ask if they wouldn’t mind letting you handcuff them or perhaps having them handcuff you. Pull out a blindfold and ask them to try it on while you pleasure them. Simply asking is usually the best route to go.
Other people prefer visual props. That’s okay, too. Going to a sex shop, or looking at one on the internet, is always a good ice breaker for bringing up new sex play. This allows you to discuss potential pleasures and teasing devices for your next bedroom romp.
What Are Some Ideas?
If you and your beloved are feeling a little bored in the bedroom lately, I have plenty of ideas for kinky sex. One of my personal favorites is, of course, the blindfold. I love to blindfold my beloved and have my way with him. I love to listen to him beg for more and then sigh in both pleasure and pain as I deny him his oh so missed orgasm.
Of course, adding on a pair of hand cuffs or restraints is a lot of pleasure as well. He wants to touch me, he needs to feel my flesh, but he can’t. All he can do is sit back and feel my fingers and lips pleasure and tantalize his cock. It’s great fun for both of us.
Bedroom bondage is always fun, but roleplaying games and fetishes are never to be dismissed. These can really bring out the wilder side of your beloved. Kinky sex is whatever you want it to be, and it’s so very satisfying to try.